To evolve without limitations is success. To love without conditions is success. To experience without being judgmental is success. Success is what we become from our experiences. It is the limitlessness we experience in each moment. Being successful makes us appreciate each n every moment as it is. To trust the universe & trusting being the universe itself makes us successful. Accepting self in each moment from every situation is success. Our non-judgmental acceptance of self in each moment defines success. We become successful the moment we choose awareness for our experiences.
It happens very often with us, especially night time when we’re in our bed trying really hard to sleep, that our mind starts wandering in all possible directions and despite all our conscious efforts it just does not stop. The body is tired and wants to shut down but the mind differs, it wants to continue talking and it wants you to listen. The conflict continues with several hours of tossing and turning in your bed, looking at the clock every minute.
LISTEN! Listen carefully to that chatter. It is our soul talking to us and telling us to look at something we’ve been ignoring. It is that aspect of our life which needs our attention the most in the present moment. It might not be the most important thing according to us, but then why are we still up thinking about it when we could be snoring away? We often believe that the aspect troubling us currently is our real problem which is most important and needs immediate attention and what our mind is talking about is totally different from what we are experiencing. But if we pay attention to what our soul’s chatter is telling us, we’ll see that the solution to our current problem lies beneath the story our soul is telling us.
We keep ourselves so engrossed in our daily problems that we forget to wait and listen to our soul. The soul gets tired of holding on to the problem which we have continuously chosen to neglect. That is the reason of the chattering of our minds. Our soul is forced to disturb us at that time. It wants to get rid of its problem.
The only way to stop this chatter and get a peaceful sleep is to allow our soul to talk. Let the thoughts flow and write down each and every thought you get and the emotions you experience then. Once you’ve penned it down, read it, bring your awareness to all the words your soul is telling you. This automatically will bring your conscious and subconscious in alignment with each other. Now sleep over it. By doing so, you firstly will be able to sleep peacefully since you’ve uncluttered your mind and cleared its baggage and secondly, you’ll know where your problem actually lies. And then once you consciously register the problem, you’ll work on resolving it.
Listening to our soul helps us work towards our growth. It’s all inside us – both the problem and its solution. We just have to accept them as part of us, as a part of our being. Never ever ignore the voice of your soul because by doing so all we are doing is running away from accepting our growth, which anyways is inevitable.
To be loyal to others, we first have to be loyal with ourselves.
Before seeking commitment from others, we must first give our commitment to ourselves.
We face rejection because at many steps, we reject ourselves. We reject ourselves in judging our choices. We reject ourselves in our expectations of getting love & acceptance of others. Have we yet loved & accepted ourselves completely?
We never choose to reject, we never choose to hurt others. We make a choice only for our growth. Expectations of outcome from our choices forced us to judge ourselves. We never believed that outcome may not be according to our expectations but it surely is what is required for our growth though this choice.
Non-acceptance of outcome made us think, what if, we would have made a different choice. Believe, that if given a chance again, we again will make a same choice, because the wisdom of not making a right choice also came through making that choice. So, our choices, whatever we make for whatever outcome, is helping us to understand our connection with self.
Lastly, the choice is ours to keep judging or accept the choice we already made. Again, both the choices will be right for our growth.
“Karma” in my understanding has been overrated. Till now we have been living fear based karma. That if we will do good then good will happen to us & if we’ll do bad, bad will happen to us.
But since energies of each & every one are shifting including the planetary energies we are getting more aware that “Karma” are the lessons from which we have choose to learn & grow. The situation which seems to us as bad karma, is representing nothing but our lack of understanding about that situation, person and above all our own self through that.
We fear situation & person when we fail to look ourselves through them. When we become aware why a situation & person is effecting us in a manner unpleasant to us we also open ourselves to learn the hidden lesson behind them. This brought trust in self & universe and make our journey fearless.
So, Good & Bad karma can only be defined through our actions & response to the situation or person. At cosmic level there was, is & will be no punishment. We ourselves judge us based on our response to the situation & decide to pay back for it.
Only our awareness can lead us to resolve the karma by learning lessons hidden behind it.