To be loyal to others, we first have to be loyal with ourselves.
Before seeking commitment from others, we must first give our commitment to ourselves.
We face rejection because at many steps, we reject ourselves. We reject ourselves in judging our choices. We reject ourselves in our expectations of getting love & acceptance of others. Have we yet loved & accepted ourselves completely?
We never choose to reject, we never choose to hurt others. We make a choice only for our growth. Expectations of outcome from our choices forced us to judge ourselves. We never believed that outcome may not be according to our expectations but it surely is what is required for our growth though this choice.
Non-acceptance of outcome made us think, what if, we would have made a different choice. Believe, that if given a chance again, we again will make a same choice, because the wisdom of not making a right choice also came through making that choice. So, our choices, whatever we make for whatever outcome, is helping us to understand our connection with self.
Lastly, the choice is ours to keep judging or accept the choice we already made. Again, both the choices will be right for our growth.