To evolve without limitations is success. To love without conditions is success. To experience without being judgmental is success. Success is what we become from our experiences. It is the limitlessness we experience in each moment. Being successful makes us appreciate each n every moment as it is. To trust the universe & trusting being the universe itself makes us successful. Accepting self in each moment from every situation is success. Our non-judgmental acceptance of self in each moment defines success. We become successful the moment we choose awareness for our experiences.
It happens very often with us, especially night time when we’re in our bed trying really hard to sleep, that our mind starts wandering in all possible directions and despite all our conscious efforts it just does not stop. The body is tired and wants to shut down but the mind differs, it wants to continue talking and it wants you to listen. The conflict continues with several hours of tossing and turning in your bed, looking at the clock every minute.
LISTEN! Listen carefully to that chatter. It is our soul talking to us and telling us to look at something we’ve been ignoring. It is that aspect of our life which needs our attention the most in the present moment. It might not be the most important thing according to us, but then why are we still up thinking about it when we could be snoring away? We often believe that the aspect troubling us currently is our real problem which is most important and needs immediate attention and what our mind is talking about is totally different from what we are experiencing. But if we pay attention to what our soul’s chatter is telling us, we’ll see that the solution to our current problem lies beneath the story our soul is telling us.
We keep ourselves so engrossed in our daily problems that we forget to wait and listen to our soul. The soul gets tired of holding on to the problem which we have continuously chosen to neglect. That is the reason of the chattering of our minds. Our soul is forced to disturb us at that time. It wants to get rid of its problem.
The only way to stop this chatter and get a peaceful sleep is to allow our soul to talk. Let the thoughts flow and write down each and every thought you get and the emotions you experience then. Once you’ve penned it down, read it, bring your awareness to all the words your soul is telling you. This automatically will bring your conscious and subconscious in alignment with each other. Now sleep over it. By doing so, you firstly will be able to sleep peacefully since you’ve uncluttered your mind and cleared its baggage and secondly, you’ll know where your problem actually lies. And then once you consciously register the problem, you’ll work on resolving it.
Listening to our soul helps us work towards our growth. It’s all inside us – both the problem and its solution. We just have to accept them as part of us, as a part of our being. Never ever ignore the voice of your soul because by doing so all we are doing is running away from accepting our growth, which anyways is inevitable.
To be loyal to others, we first have to be loyal with ourselves.
Before seeking commitment from others, we must first give our commitment to ourselves.
We face rejection because at many steps, we reject ourselves. We reject ourselves in judging our choices. We reject ourselves in our expectations of getting love & acceptance of others. Have we yet loved & accepted ourselves completely?
We never choose to reject, we never choose to hurt others. We make a choice only for our growth. Expectations of outcome from our choices forced us to judge ourselves. We never believed that outcome may not be according to our expectations but it surely is what is required for our growth though this choice.
Non-acceptance of outcome made us think, what if, we would have made a different choice. Believe, that if given a chance again, we again will make a same choice, because the wisdom of not making a right choice also came through making that choice. So, our choices, whatever we make for whatever outcome, is helping us to understand our connection with self.
Lastly, the choice is ours to keep judging or accept the choice we already made. Again, both the choices will be right for our growth.
Our growth is inevitable. Wethere we choose to come out of our comfort zone or not, everything which is needed for our growth (Likable or Unlikable) will be presented to us. Non- acceptance of whatever is presented to us is just fighting against our growth & make our growth a tiresome job.
We feel misery in a situation because we do not accept or failed to see our growth through it. We just keep blaming to God/Creator to bring that unlikable situation to us & putting us there to suffer. Whom are we fighting to? We are our own creator. Every situation is just the mirror to us what we carry inside us. Denying it will never change our physical reality but will just add EFFORTS in our soul’s growth.
We see situations tough only because of not accepting our growth in it, but the reality is, we face any situation when & only our soul is ready to face it, accept it & grow through it. Acceptance is the first step to get out of misery & allow ourselves to grow effortlessly.
Lack of acceptance can make us feel helpless, miserable & victimized by the situation forever. But all we have to understand that our journey is about effortless growth through acceptance of everything & everyone that surround us.